Yes, I know of a couple of families that have children who have 30 year old children still living at home in their bedrooms, watching television, collecting government checks ($900.00 plus medical care)because they will not and can not keep a job. Their parents never let them experience pain, embarrasment, emotional trauma, or anything that was uncomfortable. They have never sweated or have been cold. They are princesses and little princes. I bet we have a whole generation of these kind of people coming on board.
Why the heck is a 30 year old getting a check for being sorry. Why don't somebody kick the parents in the butt for being enablers and then kick the lazy butts out into the real world. THEN kick the tails of the government dudes who allow this crap. Sorry excuses for human beings, all of 'em.
I question that scenario as well regulator. I was on my own at age 16. My oldest son tried to be that lazy live at home person at the age of 19 and I put him walking, now he has a good job, a wonderful family and a home of his own. I have two teenagers at home. Both of them with psychological disorders. I could have gotten "a check" on them long ago, but I stopped and thought about what it would do to their future. Considered them 'outgrowing' their disability. And now they are 13 and 14 and I am glad I did not get that check now. I wonder about my 14 year old sometimes because he is so withdrawn and has what is called social anxiety. But the 13 year old, he is far from being disabled. He is a little hyper and imaginative but he will do fine. And yea the hardest part of being a mom is letting go, letting them experience pain, embarrasment, and uncomfortable situations,make their own mistakes but that is all part of life, they need to learn. So yea I don't understand why a 30 year old is still at home,unless they are really disabled, there is no need for it. That is called lack of parenting in my book.